Saturday Smile: Birthday Smiles

Yesterday was Mylee’s 11th birthday. To celebrate, she went with her family to Boondock’s, an amusement park of sorts. Her mom and dad gave her a cell phone, something awarded to their kids when they go into middle school. Mylee? Middle school? How did that happen.

Bill and I went over after dinner and had cake and ice cream. She was in a wonderful mood and had a great day…..

All three kids agreed to pose for a photo. Man, is it ever hard to get all three to be photo-ready…..


Grandkids’ birthdays make me smile.

Have a great weekend.

Friday Book Whimsy: The Last Thing He Told Me

At 40, woodworker Hannah Hall has not yet met anyone until Owen Michaels walks into her shop. It is nearly love at first sight. Before a year has passed, she and Owen are happily married. Owen’s teenaged daughter Bailey is not as happy about the whole thing as are Owen and Hannah.

And then one day, Owen disappears. He doesn’t come home from work, and a bit later, a stranger — a student whom Hannah doesn’t know — appears at her door to deliver a message from Owen. Two words: Protect her.

Hannah doesn’t even have to think twice to know exactly who he means. He is undoubtedly talking about his daughter Bailey, who lost her mother to a car accident when she was a mere child. She doesn’t remember her, or frankly, much about her life before she and her father moved to Sausalito.

With the news of Owen’s company being caught in a financial atrocity, and Owen missing, Hannah knows she has to protect Bailey, despite her stepdaughter’s distrust of her. It’s what Owen would want.

As the two try to figure out what’s going on, they learn that Owen was not who he purported to be, and frankly, neither one of them know who he really is. But Hannah is determined to figure it out, and to protect Bailey at all costs.

I will tell you that the last time I read an entire book in a day was probably when I was 10 or 11 years old. I simply couldn’t put The Last Thing He Ever Told Me, by Laura Dave, down. The writing was terrific, but more importantly, the driving story kept me glued to the book. A chapter would end, and I would tell myself, I will only read one more chapter. Before I knew it, the day had passed and the book had ended.

I loved this book.

Here is a link to this book.

Thursday Thoughts

Do You Smell Cinnamon?
There is a restaurant in Fort Collins known for its cinnamon rolls. They really are very tasty, if quite large. During Jen’s kids/grandkids’ recent visit, we had breakfast there one morning. Seven-year-old Lilly requested a cinnamon roll. The restaurant was out of the mini rolls, so she ended up with a cinnamon roll the size of her head…..

She didn’t eat the whole thing, I’m pleased to say. She did, however, do quite a bit of damage to the sticky treat. Great job, Lilly!

Boom, Boom, Boom
Bill has a new project that he’s working on. A recent windstorm took out our neighbor’s gate, and ours with it. We got a couple of bids to replace the gate. They were all surprisingly high. Bill took a look at what work was necessary, and decided he could do much of the work himself. So he has spent the last two days digging holes for posts. This requires some degree of digging out of old matter. From morning until night, he works. From morning until night, I hear BOOM, BOOM, BOOM, BOOM, BOOM. That’s my husband for you.

They Say It’s Your Birthday
Bill’s son Allen celebrated his birthday this past weekend. We wanted to have some sort of festivity for him, but there were too many of us to eat at a restaurant. Allen suggested we all meet at Edgewater Public Market, a recently-completed marketplace with many different choices of places to eat and shop. There was both indoor and outdoor dining, and there was plenty of room for the 16 of us to celebrate. It was lots of fun, and Bill and I will definitely go there again. Or perhaps go to one that is a bit nearer to our house, as these public markets are a new phenomenon here in the Denver Metro area…..

Baby Love
I got an invitation to my niece’s baby shower in AZ in August. I won’t be able to attend because we will be in Vermont visiting our grands. My niece is preparing to have her FIFTH child, all of whom are girls. My brother has three daughters (and a son), and out of his soon-to-be nine grandkids, seven are girls. What with his three sisters, you could say the man is surrounded by estrogen!

Ciao!

Paper or Plastic?

When I was growing up, it was easy to go to the grocery store. Aside from which kind of steak you should buy or whether you should buy whole tomatoes or stewed tomatoes, there were no decisions to be made.

Even as a young adult, I still walked up to the checkout stand where the cashier manually pressed the price of the item into the cash register, which then totaled up my groceries at the end. While he or she was doing that, there was a pimply high school student putting my groceries into a paper bag. By the way, the bag had no handles. You simply grabbed the sack from the bottom and hoped it would hold. If the wet lettuce had gone in first, there might be a problem.

And then, in the early 80s, plastic grocery bags came on the scene, and grocery shopping as we knew it changed forever. At first they seemed like a miracle — sturdy, with handles that could fit around your wrists and hold a lot of grocery items. But then we all became concerned about what plastic grocery bags were doing to the environment. We sipped our water out of plastic throwaway bottles and wondered if we were ruining the oceans with our Walmart bags. Grocery stores didn’t help, because they began putting fewer and fewer items in each bag. Fewer items were necessitated by the increasingly flimsy bags. Grocery shoppers would buy five items and have three bags to carry.

We were then faced with that crucial question: paper or plastic? Paper killed trees; plastic killed ducks and porpoises. Plastic apparently won, because as of late, if you shop at the big grocery stores — Kroger, Safeway, Target, Walmart — there are pert near no paper bags to be found. It’s plastic all the way.

At least until recently, when a new question is being posed: reusable bags or plastic bags for which you must pay? Starting July 1, if shopping within the boundaries of the City and County of Denver, we must bring our own bag or pay for a plastic bag. Whaaaaat?

I really was up in arms about this new ordinance. I generally bring my own bags to the store, but I often forget because I’ve run out of the house quickly. I also often forget my grocery list and have to walk up and down the aisle and guess what I need. I’m nearly always unsuccessful.

Anyhoo, I was ranting wildly to my husband about the new requirement to pay for plastic bags. After I settled down, he — in his typical manner — gently reminded me that each bag was 10 cents. One thin dime. If I needed to use four plastic bags, it would only be 40 cents. I spend almost $100 on groceries every time I go, so 40 cents would simply be a little tiny drop in the proverbial bucket.

I had settled down until I then heard that the Colorado legislature had passed — and the governor had signed — legislation that will ban the use of plastic bags. BAN. That means my dime won’t buy me a bag. In the case of forgetting to bring my reusable bag, I will have to buy another reusable bag. Maybe two or three. In three months, I am liable to have to add a room onto my house to hold my reusable bags. Shall we have our morning coffee in the kitchen or the Reusable Bag Room?

This law, my friends, doesn’t go into effect until January 1, 2024. I have three years to prepare. Living in Denver, I will have an edge up on my non-Denver friends and family members who will go into it stone cold. Maybe I will invite them to tea in my Reusable Bag Room and send them home with party favors.

Guess Who’s Talking

Given my love for British mysteries, you can imagine that I’m always on the outlook for a new series. There are plenty from which to choose, but some of them are really quite old. I’m old too, but I’ve moved along with the times. These programs are static. They still use land lines. Their lapels are disturbingly wide and their ties are disturbingly short. They smoke endlessly. I prefer period pieces that are made in this century, but take place in the last. While the clothes are 60s or 70s in design, there is a bit more pizazz than there was in the real 60s and 70s.

Anyway, I stumbled upon a series that I noticed was recorded in 2015. It is called River. It stars Stellan Skarsgard (a man of whom I was wholly unfamiliar) as Detective Inspector John River. His partner, I noticed with delight, is played by one of my favorite British actresses named Nicola Walker. That was the extent of what I knew about the program before I dove in to the first episode.

It started out with the two going through a fast-food drive-thru, and DI River being revolted by the food his partner DS Jackie Stevenson is eating. It was amusing. Then, however, it moved to the next scene in which DS River is talking to a shrink, clearly not happy to be there. It took me an embarrassingly long time, but I finally figured out that DS Stevenson is dead, killed on the job. DI River, however, continues to “see” her and, more disturbingly, talk to her. I’m unaware if the fast food had any connection to her death.

So after watching about the first half hour, I had to turn it off. I found it too weird to see him talking to his partner, and listening to her talk back to him. She’s dead, remember. So basically, he’s talking to himself. So, although Ms. Walker has a starring role in the series, she’s kind of fuzzy and, well, dead. It remains to be seen whether she is very helpful in helping him solve crimes. Because, see above, she’s dead.

That’s a very long introduction to my real point, which is that I, too, talk to myself. It’s not supposed to be a problem unless you answer yourself. Which, of course, I do. This phenomenon is not new. I have talked to myself for as long as I can remember.

When I was a child, I had an invisible friend. Her name was Cathy. This, by the way, was an odd choice for a name because I had a real neighborhood friend named Kathy, spelled with a K. Perhaps I felt the spelling difference was significant enough to make it less weird. The bottom line is that I was basically talking to myself because she was invisible.

As I got a bit older, my imagination got even weirder. I would imagine that my life was being filmed and people were watching live. Basically it was reality television before reality television became a thing. Being only 11 or 12 years old, my life wasn’t all that interesting. But then neither are the lives of the Kardashians, and they’ve become filthy rich via their lives being filmed. The point is, because my life was being filmed, I had to talk to myself. And so I did. I basically narrated my pitiful little 11-year-old life to my audience, who existed only in my mind.

Stop laughing. I don’t do that any longer.

Having said all of the above, since DI Rivers and I are basically soul brother and sister, I will give his show another try.

Gone to the Dogs

We had a very busy weekend, what with visitors from Vermont and visitors from AZ. As I write this blog, I am dead on my feet, so I will simply tell you that yesterday, the home of Bill and Kris had gone to the dogs.

My brother Dave and his daughter Brooke came from AZ for the week, and brought along Dave’s new dog, Charlie. Charlie was adopted and is of an uncertain breed. We guess perhaps a little dachshund and a little chihuahua. Maybe some corgi. He is just a pup, and so he had a lot more energy than the other dogs. He has a pensive face with bright eyes and the most adorable ears I’ve ever seen on a dog….

Dave’s daughter Jessie and her boyfriend Robert have two dogs — one apiece when they met. Both are adopted and are mixed breed. Well, to be honest, it’s not exactly accurate to say Jessie adopted Edi. It’s more accurate to say Edi adopted Jessie. She was a junkyard dog, literally. Jessie took her home, fattened her up, and Edi is about the most loyal dog I’ve ever seen. She is part pit bull and part sharpei. Mostly, she thinks she’s a lap dog…..

Ali is the matriarch and watches the other dogs romp like the elderly aunt watches her great grand nieces and nephews at play. Winston, of course, is Jen’s dog. He wasn’t sure what to think about this particular pack, and so he sort of sat on the sidelines and watched. I tried to get a photo of all four dogs, but this is the best I could do…..

Four amber pooches kept us busy yesterday afternoon.

Saturday Smile: At the Movies

Bill bought a tiny projector way back when we were still in AZ. He brought it home, with the intention of having a movie night or two with the grands. That finally materialized on Thursday. We gathered many of our children and grandchildren to our yard. Bill put up the projector. People technologically more savvy than us (our grands) figured out how to connect Bill’s iPad to the project. Voila! We watched The Mitchells vs. the Machines out in our backyard. I didn’t get a photo of the gathering, but I did get a photo of the setup…..

It was a night to remember, and it made me smile.

Have a great weekend.

Friday Book Whimsy: The Wonder Boy of Whistle Stop

Yes, Lovers of Idgie and Ruth and Ninny Threadgoode, all who hail from the teeny tiny town of Whistle Stop, rejoice! They are back in Fannie Flagg’s followup novel, The Wonder Boy of Whistle Stop.

I loved the original book, Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe, and its subsequent movie, cleverly called Fried Green Tomatoes, so much that I think of those characters often. So it was with great joy that I discovered that Fannie Flagg has given us an update on those beloved characters.

Ruth, of course, died in the first book. She left Idgie grieving enormously, kept grounded only by Ruth’s son Bud. In The Wonder Boy of Whistle Stop, Bud has grown older and yearns to see Whistle Stop once more before he is too old to travel. Whistle Stop — like many towns who were left behind when interstate highways were built, or train stops were eliminated — has become nothing more than a ghost town. Wonder Boy tells us how Bud achieves his dream, and more.

The story is told almost like a series of vignettes, which threw me for a bit. It went back and forth in time, reintroducing some of the old characters and meeting brand new friends. Primary among the new friends is Bud’s daughter Ruthie. She has grown up hearing her dad talk about his wonderful childhood, and it has made her curious.

Idgie has grown older but has lost none of her pizazz. If anything, she has gotten feistier than ever. Through flashbacks and memories, we once again get to enjoy Ninny and hear her stories of Whistle Stop. We relive Christmas at the cafe. Even Evelyn — who is now a widow and enormously wealthy — plays a wonderful role in the story. I loved how the book ended.

Flagg’s writing makes the reader feel as though they are sitting next to the characters, drinking a Co-Cola and talking about the weather. It was such a wonderful story to read during a time when things aren’t always pleasant on the news.

I highly recommend this book, but you must read Fried Green Tomatoes first.

Here is a link to the book.

Thursday Thoughts

Chicken Dinner
Last night, I had my visiting brother Dave and niece Brooke over for dinner. They were joined by his other daughter, Jessie, and her boyfriend Rob. Court and Alyx and the kids came as well. I fried up a whole chicken and some extra thighs and legs. I mixed some cucumbers with sour cream and chives from my garden. I rustled up some macaroni and Swiss cheese just like my mom and grandmother used to make. We did a dang good job of finishing up almost everything. I had a couple of pieces of chicken left, and a few beans. There were just enough macaroni left for lunch today. It was tons of fun.

Visiting Grands
I got a text from Maggie Faith yesterday morning. Joseph and Micah and I are heading over to your house. Shortly after, I heard the front door open and the sounds of grandkids filled the air. We really didn’t do much. They watched a movie on Netflix. We ordered food from Noodles & Co. Micah isn’t fond of noodles, but he was excited to eat the leftover cold pizza from the day before. “I like my pizza cold,” he assured me. “Don’t heat it up.” Afterwards, they settled back down to watch a few episodes of Death in Paradise before heading back to their home. It was fun to spend some time with the Vermont grandkids, even if they were somewhat distracted by technology.

Puzzled
I’ve been somewhat stumped by a puzzle that I thought would be easier than it seems to be. But as soon as Kaiya, Mylee, and Cole arrived yesterday evening, Mylee went straight to the puzzle. “Nana,” she said. “I’ve already found four pieces.” “Good enought, Mylee,” I told her. “Go ahead and do as much as you can, because I’m getting nowhere fast.” I’m starting to get used to being bested by a 10-year-old.

Picasso-in-Waiting
And while Mylee was working on the puzzle, Kaiya got ahold of the sidewalk chalk. She worked for quite some time. This was the result…..

Not too bad for freehand art.

Ciao!

Half Past Summer

I saw it yesterday for the first time. It’s as predictable as the pumpkin spice Cheerios appearing on your grocery shelves come September. I saw the first Back to School sales ad.

The smell of sulfur from fireworks is still lingering in the air, and we’re talking about our kiddies — whose feet bottoms are not yet summer-seasoned from going barefoot — going back into the classroom. Of course, my mother was ahead of the curve. Every year on the 5th of July, she would cheerfully remind us that summer was half over as she swept up the firework remnants. Over the years, I have given a lot of thought to why my mother would say those dreaded words. I don’t think she was eager for summer to end. On the contrary, I think she dreaded the coming of getting kids ready for school each morning as much as we dreaded going. I learned my glass-half-empty mentality from her. If you know it’s going to happen, you might as well start getting yourself mentally ready.

Even a summer-lover such as me must admit that the first half of the summer is a tad more cheerful than the last half of the summer. In May and June, you are planting your gardens, the grass is greening, the flowers are blooming, the nights cool off, and you can sleep with your windows open. Sometime around late July, the petunias start getting leggy, the grass is tinged with brown, darkness is appearing sooner every day, and the air is still and warm, requiring the constant hum of the air conditioner.

But the good news about July and August is that we often have summer visitors. It’s true this year, as Heather and Lauren and their two boys are in town for a week. And my brother Dave arrived yesterday with his daughter Brooke to spend the week. Her husband Alexx was unable to come, so this is the first separation for the newlyweds.

I intend to make the most of the weeks ahead. We have a trip planned to Vermont in August, there are some birthdays to celebrate, and, of course, there are always the late summer tomatoes and Palisade peaches to anticipate.

Last year pools were closed and restaurants were silent. The best news, of course, is that we are able to enjoy each other without masks, even if summer is half over.