Thursday Thoughts: Wednesday-Before-Thanksgiving Edition

Why Wednesday?
I am offering you my thoughts on Wednesday, because I plan to be eating lots and lots of turkey and dressing tomorrow, and lots and lots of turkey-and-dressing sandwiches on Friday and Saturday, and then the inevitable turkey tetrazzini on Sunday. Therefore, you will not see a blog post from me until Monday. And then I will likely be blogging about overeating!

Giving Thanks
As I’ve mentioned, the past few years we have all gathered at Dave and Jll’s house for Thanksgiving. The primary reason they took over the Thanksgiving hosting is because a number of years ago, they remodeled their house in such a way that their first floor is basically all one room, and the centerpiece of that room is a table that COMFORTABLY seats 20, all with matching chairs. Luxurious, no? The fact of the matter is, all 20 of those places are often filled. They have four children, and there are lots of family and friends. Addie, for example, recently hosted a dinner part for 20 of her closest 8th grade friends.  This year, however, they are going different directions for Thanksgiving. Dave and Alastair are going to Chicago to visit Bill’s mom. Jll and the girls are going to spend Thanksgiving with Jll’s mom and sister in Estes Park. So, Bill and I are reverting back to hosting dinner. And honestly, you would think I have never hosted a Thanksgiving before. For one thing, I have had to CLEAN MY HOUSE. Heavens to Betsy, that’s big. There will be a lucky 13 at our table. Bill and I worked on my dining room table yesterday, and we are managing to fit 12 people with mismatched chairs and just enough room to move your arms if you do so with caution. Cole will be in his high chair – a high chair for which he is correctly starting to realize he’s too big. Just one more meal, Cole. Just one more, bud.

A high chair, Nana? Really?

A high chair, Nana? Really?

Do They Make Me Look Smart?
A couple of nights ago, Dave and Jll had us over for dinner. We got there a bit early, and shortly after we arrived, Dave got home. He was a bit late because he had picked up his new glasses. I thought the glasses looked awesome — a bit like Kiefer Sutherland wears in Designated Survivor. But down to his last child, the reaction to the new look was questionable. “Do you like my new glasses?” Dave asked each one of them. The answer was varying versions of NOPE. But Alastair’s was the best. “Are those your new glasses? he asked his dad. “Yes,” Dave replied. “Seriously?” Alastair asked. Kids and grandkids keep you humble.

Do You Think I Should Accent My T-Shirt With a Scarf?
Yesterday afternoon, I got a telephone call from Addie. “Can I come hang out at your house, Nana?” she asked. I wasn’t home, but told her she could come by in about a half hour when I would be home. She did, and we sat down to watch some television. After perusing several choices, i.e., a Shark Tank that we had both seen before and an unsuccessful attempt to access an old Survivor, we finally settled on a Project Runway. I had never seen this show before, but it seemed relatively harmless and not R rated like some programs. I’m not sure what station it’s on, because we were watching it On Demand, but it is a competition show featuring dress designers willing to go to any length to win. Just like every other competition show. In the middle of one of the episodes, Bill wandered into the room, sat down, and before you know it, he was watching as well. Never thought I’d see the day.

Happy Thanksgiving
As I mentioned above, I won’t be blogging again until Monday, as I will be preparing my turkey and setting my table. Actually, I will have some help with all of my last minute jobs because Kaiya, Mylee, and Cole will help me with pies and place cards. As a result, it will take twice as long, but I will have twice as much fun. I have much for which to be thankful, and I only occasionally forget that fact.

Happy thanksgiving to all of you, and enjoy your friends and family in the days ahead.

First Last Shop

Yesterday I did what my sister Bec calls my first last shop for our Thanksgiving dinner. You know, the grocery shop where you carefully prepared your list, absolutely certain that there’s not a single thing you’ve forgotten.

Yesterday morning, I even recited to Bill all of the items various people are  bringing to our dinner, asking him to see if I’m forgetting some important Thanksgiving food group – you know, the sweet potatoes or the gravy or the whipped cream for the pies. He pretended to listen, but I soon saw his eyes begin to glaze over. So I released him to go back to reading his morning news and will hold him wholly responsible if we don’t have jellied cranberries. (We do.)

So, of course, I’m absolutely certain that I have everything, but I won’t. And there I will be on Wednesday looking forlornly at the empty shelves and wishing I had remembered that one secret spice that makes the difference in the pie or the mashed potatoes.

At the store, I got behind a 30-something man and his daughter who looked about 8. His basket was overflowing with All Things Thanksgiving Dinner. But as I nosily perused his basket (I had already read the front page of the National Enquirer and knew that Tom Cruise is choosing Scientology over his daughter Suri), I began noticing  things like bags of fresh cranberries, and organic milk and cream, and bags of fresh carrots and fresh herbs like thyme and rosemary and mint. There was a fresh pie pumpkin and a bag of Brussel sprouts and some fresh kale and a bag of apples.

Not a can of green beans or mushroom soup to be had. No cans of corn for the corn casserole. No pork sausage for the dressing.

Most notably, NO TURKEY. Since thinking about being a vegetarian on Thanksgiving makes me too sad, I am going to imagine that he had a fresh organic turkey that has been fed nothing but acorns, hickory nuts and crabapples on order from a farmer in nearby Brighton, and he and his daughter were stopping there next (well, after they go home and put away the organic milk and cream).

I began thinking of that poor man getting up at dawn Thanksgiving Day and preparing a pumpkin pie from scratch without benefit of a Libby’s can or its recipe. I imagine the hassles involved in shredding the Brussel sprouts and browning the pancetta. And then there is the whole picking the pinfeathers from the fresh organic turkey. He will NOT be watching the Macy’s Day parade.

Jen sent me this following text a few days ago: I am watching Giada’s Thanksgiving show. She says the side dishes need to be fun and playful as that will make them conversation starters at the table. She ended her text with an appropriate disgusted emoji.

Fun and playful?  Every Thanksgiving of my life, I have had a green bean casserole. You know, canned green beans, canned cream of mushroom soup, French fried onions. If you’re feeling really devilish, you can add a dash of soy sauce. This year I outsourced the vegetable to one of my guests and didn’t specify what kind of vegetable. If there is no green bean casserole, that will cause me not a moment of angst.

I found this photo on Campbell Soup's web page. It looks like nobody's green bean casserole ever.

I found this photo on Campbell Soup’s web page. It looks like nobody’s green bean casserole ever.

And I certainly hope that the conversation at our dinner table will be more interesting than a playful kumquat side dish.

Oops. Just remembered that I forgot to buy evaporated milk for my pumpkin pie. Time for my second last shop.

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The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

imagesIt’s that time of year again, folks. The season of losing my mind.

As you are all aware, Christmas season starts earlier and earlier every year. It used to be that we were happy if it didn’t start until after Thanksgiving. Nowadays we’re happy if it doesn’t start until after Halloween. Pretty soon it will be 4th of July.

I’m not going to complain about Christmas season starting earlier. I’ll leave that to others. I, for one, am in the camp of enjoying Christmas music earlier. Heck, I would enjoy it all year long if I could (without people thinking I’m nuts). And Bill and I experience our holiday season a bit differently than most. Because we leave for AZ on Christmas Day, we really celebrate the holiday – at least the secular holiday – the few days before Christmas. I spend Christmas Eve Day every year being the Grinch; that is, I’m taking down my Christmas trees. For that reason, I always put them up on Thanksgiving Day. It gives me a chance to have the grandkids help me decorate my Angel Tree.

It used to be that if I had my Christmas shopping finished by December 14 (my birthday), I was deeply satisfied. I always posted my Christmas cards that day as well. Now, of course, the Christmas card ship has sailed, at least for me. I haven’t sent cards in years, and only get a few as a result, mostly pictures of my great nieces and nephews, which I love. Christmas cards are for the young and not cynical. If I DID send out Christmas cards, they would say Merry Christmas and not Happy Holidays. So there.

Because I have been seeing the Christmas ads for several weeks now, I have been FREAKING OUT because I hadn’t started my shopping. I couldn’t shop in AZ, because then I would just have had to bring the gifts home. So I sat down at my computer yesterday, and began my shopping.

Yes, Ladies and Gentlemen, I am one of those who does nearly all of my shopping by computer. Last year I’m pretty sure I did it all via one dot com or another. And it is my hope that I can do that this year as well. I’m not agoraphobic, or even terribly antisocial. I just hate looking for parking places. I don’t know the technical term for a parking-place-looking phobia.

Yesterday Bill and I went to Costco after church to get some things for Thanksgiving. You know, Thanksgiving. That holiday that falls the day before Black Friday. Anyhoo, I needed to get some peanut oil in which to fry one of our turkeys. (We will have two, lest Court’s first attempt ever at turkey frying is a horrible fail. In the past, we have eaten at Dave and Jll’s, but they are scattering this year, leaving us floundering and trying to figure out how to replicate their always-delicious fried turkey.) Well, it hadn’t occurred to me that other people might be at Costco buying their turkeys and other accoutrements for Thanksgiving. Not just “other people.” EVERY OTHER PERSON IN SOUTHEAST DENVER.

“It probably isn’t a good idea to go to Costco right after church,” I told Bill.

“You mean because of all of the cussing and negative thoughts?” Bill asked me pointedly.

Yep. Because of that.

Well, there’s a bit of snow on the ground here and Christmas music is playing on our easy listening station. So in my mind, it’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas.

Now I just have to go check on my Thanksgiving turkeys.

Saturday Smile: See Ya’ Real Soon

Our quick trip to open up the house in AZ in preparation for our winter stay is at its end. Tomorrow we fly back to Denver. The truth is that we really didn’t have a lot of “opening up” to do since Jen was out a few weeks ago and she did most of the “opening up” activities. But this fall trip gives us the opportunity to bring out our car and some of the larger items we need, and to kind of get settled. Once we get back here on Christmas Day, we kind of hit the ground running for a bit. Christmas, New Year’s, birthdays, you name it, we have it late in December and early January.

Though we were here a little over three weeks, it seems like we didn’t see a lot of people. The reason? Well, they have lives. Go figure. My brother worked out of town for part of our trip. Bec was in Israel for a bit, and is now recovering from ear surgery. Nieces and nephews are scrambling about, getting their own kids to school and practice and lessons and such. There will be time when we come back.

But we squeezed in one last thing last night, taking the opportunity for one of my very favorite activities in AZ: watching the sun set from my brother’s back patio with an ice cold martini in my hand……

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Have a great weekend.

Thursday Thoughts

The Doctor’s Calling
This has been an unusual week for me and several others in my family. My sister Bec had surgery day before yesterday on her ear. She has had ongoing problems with her ear, including partial deafness and constant ringing. Most problematic for her, however, is that the ear was completely open from a previous surgery, preventing her from being able to go into the water. In fact, showering was complicated, involving cotton balls, many cotton balls. So while the surgery won’t restore her hearing or stop the ringing, the doctor hopes it will allow her to go into water without worry. Yay. She could  snorkel once again. Keep your fingers crossed and throw in a prayer or two.

The other health event that took place was that Monday, my 4-year-old grandson Micah (of dance fame in last Saturday’s Smile) put a rock into his mouth while playing outdoors at his preschool. He swallowed the rock, which proceeded to get stuck, at which time he was choking and couldn’t breathe. While coughing and struggling to breathe, he aspirated the rock into a lung. Quick-thinking school personnel immediately called 911 and he was taken to the hospital in Montpelier, VT, where they live. It was quickly determined that he would need surgery, so he eventually he was transported by ambulance to a hospital in Burlington, VT, where he underwent surgery involving a scope that went into his lung through his nose.

Micah in the ambulance to Burlington, VT.

Micah in the ambulance to Burlington, VT.

After numerous tries, the fabulous doctors were successful, and pulled a ONE CENTEMETER rock from his lung.

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He spent the night in the hospital as he recovered from his general anesthesia, and happily went home the next day.

Getting a ride to the car from his Mom as he leaves the hospital on Tuesday.

Getting a ride to the car from his Mom as he leaves the hospital on Tuesday.

This was scary, of course, but the most sobering thing around all of this is that had this event taken place a hundred year ago, he probably wouldn’t have survived. God is good, and Micah told his mama firmly, “I won’t put any more rocks in my mouth.” Good idea Micah.

Helping Hands
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I stumbled upon this photo this week. The photo was taken exactly four years ago and features Bill putting together something or other from IKEA, and he is being assisted by then-4-year-old Kaiya. The picture (which is pretty crappy in quality) is a poignant one for me for a couple of reasons. At the time the photo was taken, Bill’s Parkinson’s was serious enough that he had reached the point that he had effectively lost his small motor skills, preventing him from doing things like picking up tiny screws. Well, IKEA = tiny screws. I took the photo because he had asked Kaiya if she would help him, and she was handing him the small screws so that he could screw them in. I still cry when I think about it. I remember that it made me so happy that my husband didn’t let a little thing like Parkinson’s disease stop him from doing what he wanted to do. He would just ask for help, and frequently did. But it also reminded me that just a few months after that photo was taken, Bill was put on a new (for him) regime of medications that were truly miraculously life-transforming for him. Almost immediately, he regained his small motor skills, and many other of the effects of the disease were alleviated as well. He continues to do very well under this medication regime. I am so grateful to live at a time where there are medications available that have literally added productive years to his life. Just like with Micah, if he had been diagnosed 100 years ago, this would not have been the case. I am a very grateful woman this week.

Ciao.

The Way of the Lord

jerusalem-churchI studied bible history from the time I was 5 years old and a kindergartner at St. Bonaventure Catholic Elementary School. I have heard over and over all of the stories of Jesus’ life on earth – from birth until his death at age 33 (well, except for that large period of life that is missing from the scriptures). But I never actually gave much thought to visiting the Holy Land, particularly after it got more and more dangerous.

Little thought, that is, until taking a bible study class a couple of years ago, and listening to the teacher talk about her trips to Israel when she was able to spend time where Jesus was born and lived his short life. “I could hardly breathe, she told us. “I couldn’t believe I was visiting the places where Jesus actually lived and did his work.” I knew it was some place I’d like to visit some day.

So when my sister Bec decided she was going to the Holy Land as part of a tour sponsored by a Catholic priest – in fact, the pastor at All Saints Catholic Church where Bill and I attend Mass each Sunday when we are in AZ – I was ecstatic that she was going to have that opportunity. One of the things that was important to her was that she go with a Christian group that would make visiting the holy places actually a holy experience, and this fit the bill.

Bec travel days were packed with the opportunity to see the history of the Jews in the Old Testament as well as the important places in Christ’s life. They visited the cave in Bethlehem at which it is believed that Mary gave birth to her precious baby. She saw the field where the angels sang glory to God in the highest, peace on earth, good will towards men. Her group went to Cana to see the city where Jesus performed his first miracle at the behest of his mother.  She saw the places where Jesus taught and rested and ate meals with his friends – and even raised one of his friends from the dead. She walked the path that Jesus himself walked as he carried the cross to the place where he would be murdered – Mount Calvary. She witnessed where he died, where he was buried, and where he rose from the dead three days later.

All of this was amazing, she admits. Imagine walking the same path that Jesus walked. Still, those events took place over 2,000 years ago, so clearly it was unlikely that she was looking at the actual stones on which Jesus sat. Nevertheless, she was able to get a really clear picture in her mind of the places we read about every week in the gospel.

As she walked the path to Mount Calvary, she – along with three others – carried a wooden cross, similar (though not as large) as the one Jesus himself carried. As she walked, she said at first she was bothered by all of the talking and the noise around her, wanting to quietly experience Jesus’ passion.

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“But I reminded myself that the day Jesus carried the cross, it wasn’t quiet,” she said. “In fact, there was noise all around him. People crying. People jeering. The noise of the city.” After that realization, the experience became more meaningful for her.

“I couldn’t believe how close together some of those towns were,” she said. “It became really clear to me why Jesus’ apostles kept saying ‘Are you sure you want to go there? That’s reeeeeeeally close to Jerusalem, and you don’t have a lot of fans in Jerusalem, if you’ll recall.’”

In fact, a lot of the geography hit a note with Bec. In addition to being struck by the nearness of the places Jesus visited, other geographical conditions took her by surprise. Mount Tabor, for example, which is the mountain upon which Jesus took John and Peter and James, and he becomes radiant with light, and Moses and Elijah appear.

“It is REALLY STEEP!” Bec said. “This excursion was not just a simple ‘let’s take a quick walk up to the top of this mountain.’ It was a serious hike.”

The locations of many of these historical and religious events are apocryphal, of course, since Jesus lived thousands of years ago. And yet, it is believed by most historians that the locations are pretty accurate. It wasn’t that long after Jesus rose from the dead – no more than a few hundred years – that people began thinking, hmmmm, perhaps we should mark these spots in some way. And it was the original members of the Catholic Church (the ancestors of Jesus’ original followers) who were responsible for building the churches that indicate the locations.

This is a grotto located below the church where the Holy Family is thought to have lived.

This is a grotto located below the church where the Holy Family is thought to have lived in Nazareth.

In some case, while it isn’t certain that what they saw was actually touched by Jesus (the jars holding the wine in Cana, for example), what WAS certain was that the jars are LIKE the ones that he would have touched, and from the same time period. There was only one case, Bec says, in which the guide told them that it was historically confirmed that a particular rock was one on which Jesus sat.  It was for this reason that Bec really liked visiting the Jordan River (where Jesus was baptized by St. John the Baptist, and where she and her fellow travelers were sprinkled with the river water and blessed by Fr. Caruso) and the Sea of Galilee, which she was able to wade into and imagine Jesus walking on the water in the distance.

Wading in the Sea of Galilee (left) and standing on the banks of the Jordan River.

As we know, Jerusalem (a spot that was perhaps Bec’s favorite) is an important city for three major religions – Jewish, Christian, and Islam. The complex religious atmosphere was clearly apparent one evening as her group stopped on their way to the Western Wall to observe a bar mitzvah. As they listened to the band playing, joyfully honoring a young Jewish boy coming of age, she said she heard the call to prayer for Muslims in the background. It was a somber reminder that the struggles which have gone on for centuries continue.

When I asked her if she would make the trip again, she said, perhaps, at least to Jerusalem. She is so very glad to have had the opportunity to visit the Holy Land. There is no doubt that each Sunday when she listens to the Gospels – the stories of Jesus’ life – the impact will be profound as she will be able to picture what life looked like as the Gospel was taking place.

Can You Hear Me Now?

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Cole and Kaiya making crepes. Probably after she couldn’t reach me on my iPad.

My 8-year-old granddaughter Kaiya sent me an instant message Sunday morning. Unfortunately, I was out of the house for a bit, and didn’t get back until after lunch. What’s more, to her everlasting SHOCK, I don’t have an iPhone, so I can’t get the messages she texts me from her iPad unless I am next to my own iPad. Kaiya and Mylee are endlessly stunned that I sometimes don’t pick up when they Facetime, for the same reason.

Anyway, here is what she texted me: Nana, what does TTYL mean (with no question mark because I have learned that NOBODY hip ends text messages with punctuation, and Kaiya is nothing if not hip. It simply isn’t done, except by me, because I was educated in the Catholic school system and would have had to write out I must use proper punctuation. 500 times if I failed to punctuate properly).

Her question took me by surprise, partly because I actually knew the answer. But I wasn’t sure whether she was asking because she didn’t know or if it was simply a test. You know, a Hipness Test.

I’m actually going to go with the first option, because for whatever reason, Kaiya thinks I know a lot. I hope she never learns the truth.

Anyway, TTYL (for those of you who don’t have a 13-year-old granddaughter with her own cell phone) means Talk To You Later. It’s a convenient way to finally end that text message conversation that seems to never reach a conclusion.

I will admit that the first time 13-year-old Addie ended a text message conversation with TTYL, I had to look it up. I could tell that it was the finale, but I didn’t know why. Up until that point, my urban abbreviation lingo was limited to LOL.

Pretty funny, huh?  LOL.

So, literally hours after she had asked the question, I texted back the answer. I never heard another word, so she probably found out some other way. From someone with an iPhone.

For reasons I will never quite understand, my grandkids think I’m high-tech. The joke’s on them. I write a blog, but I have no idea what that word actually means. I own two iPads, but I got one for free when we signed up with Dish Network. What’s more, I generally only use my iPad to read or look at Pinterest or play Majong Solitaire (a game they all think is old-school, but look over my shoulder as I play it and poke the proper tiles without asking me).

Sometimes Bill will be telling me something about my iPad or computer, and I just look at him as if he is speaking Swahili, because he might as well be. Interface? Gigabyte? Peripheral devices? URL?

So see? Really not high tech.

But I guess being high-tech, just like anything else, is relative. I, for example, have a Facebook account while Kaiya’s maternal grandmother doesn’t. The McLains’ other grandmothers have Facebook accounts, but my iPads have Minecraft installed on both. High tech.

And probably most important, since I bought Bill a new iPad for his birthday, we own a total of four iPads. We own so many that we may start using iPads instead of concrete blocks to build bookshelves for our family room.

Not really. TTYL.

I Can’t Live Without a WC

imagesI think Bill is about ready to call Dish Network and see if it’s possible to have HGTV removed from our list of available networks. At this time in my life, having owned our Denver home since 1993, you would think I would have all of that need for home improvement out of my system. But every time I sit down and watch a Flip or Flop, or Fixer Upper, I find new ways in which my home absolutely needs to be, well, LIVABLE, if you take these programs seriously. .

And, of course, now we have a second home that needs improvement – not to mention a second woman who watches HGTV coming up with decorating ideas – that being my sister Jen who owns our Mesa home with us.

Our shower needs to be enlarged, I tell Bill. My room needs a ceiling fan, she tells him. Our floor needs to be replaced with tile, we both tell him.

He moves outside with a Corona and a cigar, covers his ears with his hands, and hums to himself.

But the show that really has me hooked right now is not a home improvement show. I will sit down and watch House Hunters episodes one after another until my eyeballs look like marble countertops.

And I learn a few things every time I watch the show. The first thing I learn is that Bill should get down on his knees and thank God that he’s not married to some of these women who are looking to buy a new house. The second thing I learn is that there are apparently more men who care a whole lot more about back splashes in the kitchen than I would have ever thought existed. Not just care about them; simply can’t live with a kitchen that has THAT back splash.

But my biggest takeaway when I watch that show is that prospective buyers would have a flipping heart attack if they saw my Denver house. Because LIGHT WOOD ON THE FLOORS (gack), GRANITE COUNTERTOPS INSTEAD OF QUARTZ (gack, gack), CARPET IN THE BEDROOMS (gack, puke, gack), and most heinous, NO WATER CLOSET IN THE MASTER BATH (gack and then faint facedown into the gack).

I’m addicted to that program, but addicted in the same way that you can’t leave a scab alone. It hurts to watch, but I can’t look away.

Here is a very common scenario: Man and woman looking to buy a new house. Man wants a mid-century modern. Woman wants a craftsman built in the late 1880s with lots of vintage touches. Their budget is $100,000. Realtor puts on fake smile and shows them a mid-century modern. Man is happy, except for the back splash. Woman says it’s not as bad as she imagined, but it doesn’t have a swimming pool, it is 400 feet away from the neighborhood of her choice, and the countertops aren’t Italian marble. Realtor grits teeth and then takes them to a craftsman home. Woman is happy, but concerned that the wooden floors aren’t dark enough and that the kitchen isn’t open to the living room. And then she takes a gander at the closets in the upstairs bedrooms and has to sit down because she is horrified that they are so small. And, of course, there’s the whole lack of a water closet and the fact that each of their three little darlings doesn’t have a bathroom of her own, and there’s no room in the back yard for a doggy run and a pool. The realtor — teeth firmly clenched — reminds her that it is Anchorage and that she could probably only use a pool for about 45 minutes one day in July.

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That’s the point when I begin screaming at the television. “You wanted a home built in 1885. Of course the closets are small because Victorians had small closets. And trust me when I tell you that my grandparents didn’t give a tinker’s damn what kind of a back splash there was. And your budget is so low that you can’t even afford a dog house much less a half acre for Fido to run around in.”

And then I go into my kitchen and take a look at my backsplash and begin worrying.

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Saturday Smile: After the Thrill is Gone

No matter which candidate you were supporting in Tuesday’s election, the past few days have been tumultuous at best. So much anger, fear, joy, and uncertainty, as much as I’ve ever seen in my 62 years on earth following a presidential election.

But as President Obama told us on Wednesday following the election, it’s finished. Now is the time to look ahead. As for me, I will be praying for our president-elect, for his family, for the safety of both the president-elect and Secretary Clinton, and for our country.

As things begin to settle down a bit, a couple of things came to my attention over the past few days that made me smile.

First, on the day following the election, our son Dave posted this quote from an unknown author….

A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because her trust is not on the branch but on its own wings.

I’m not entirely sure just what the mysterious author meant, but what I’m taking it to mean, at least as it relates to the past few days, is that you have to have trust in people, but most of all, you have to have trust in yourself. I have heard a lot of angst about what kind of role models for our kids either of the candidates are or would be. The bottom line, as far as I can see, is that we have to rely on ourselves to be the role models for our kids and our grandkids. Always have. Always will. We can’t leave that up to others. We have to model love and forgiveness and honesty and decency and morality; we can’t rely on others. Our kids learn from us.

The second thing I want to share is something that my sister Bec sent me the day after the election. It comes from a Catholic priest, one of whom she greatly admires. So it has a Catholic bent, but I think Fr. Kevin’s words will be meaningful to anyone with faith in God….

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And finally, my daughter-in-law Lauren sent this to me Thursday night, recognizing that after this chaotic week, I could perhaps use a laugh. And laugh, I did, at the dance moves of my sweet 4-year-old grandson Micah, who was born with perfect rhythm. Be patient; he really gets going about 33 or 34 seconds in (not that I’ve watched it 18 or 20 times)….

Have a great weekend.

Thursday Thoughts

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Yesterday was not my greatest day ever, for a number of reasons. In an effort to make myself feel better, I did the only thing one could do under the circumstances – well, aside from eating a quart of Bunny Tracks ice cream out of the carton with a spoon. I watched the movie Love, Actually. Sometime in the recent past, one of those Facebook questionnaires asked me if there was a movie I’ve watched five or more times. Yes there is, Ladies and Gentlemen. I have probably watched Love, Actually somewhere in the neighborhood of 10 times since it came out in 2003, and I love it every single time I watch it. The story lines are clever, the music is fun, there’s just enough Christmas to get me in the spirit and just enough poignant tales to make me cry a bit. Not too much. Just the right amount. Plus, I could watch the scene in which Hugh Grant (who plays the British prime minister) dances at No. 10 Downing Street by himself to Jump (For My Love). By the way, Sleepless in Seattle is another such movie, but yesterday I needed to see Hugh Grant dance.

See You Later, Facebook
I’m taking a two-week break from Facebook, but I think that I will still post my blog in the morning with my eyes closed. I have found that presently Facebook is having a negative impact on my life, and I can control that, so I plan to do just that. See all of my Facebook friends soon! In the meantime, we can communicate the old-fashioned way — talking!

Christmas Spirit
In addition to watching a holiday movie (if you can call Love, Actually a holiday movie, I also am getting in the spirit of Christmas in my Nanas Whimsies Etsy Shop. Look at some of my holiday cheer…..

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Anniversary
Part of the reason I have been off-kilter was because it was six years ago yesterday that my dad passed away. I think of him so often, and my mother as well. My brother texted me late in the afternoon and commented on how lucky we were to be blessed with such good parents. That is really true. There aren’t many days that go by that I don’t think about one or the other of my parents and wish they were around to help me decide what to do about this or that…

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And, by the way, I had pink eye in this photo, so don’t laugh.

Ciao.