Back in the Saddle

When we leave Arizona to return to Colorado I’m always asked if I am sad to be leaving or simply ecstatic to be coming back to Denver. Truthfully, the answer is both. And it doesn’t matter which direction I’m heading. I always have mixed feelings. That’s really a good thing, though. It means I have a pretty darn good life.

But the one thing that I can almost take to the bank is that no matter which direction we’re heading, the house we’re coming home to will need some work. If you own a house, you know that it’s always something. A broken garbage disposal; woodpecker holes in your siding; the dishwasher doesn’t work; the foliage is looking sad. And when you are blessed enough to own two houses, it’s always something times 2.

I sent an email to our neighbors early last week letting them know that we would be home by week end. I got a pleasant email back from one of our neighbors wishing us safe travels and alerting us to the fact that Denver had gotten a lot of rain lately and foliage was springing forth all over. That was code for “your grass is so long that small dogs might get lost in it.”

The whole way from Arizona to Colorado, Bill kept stewing about what our yard looked like. “I think I’ll wait until tomorrow to start working on it,” he said.

Unlikely, I thought. And, of course, I was right.

We pulled up to what I can tell you was what my mother would have called a God-awful mess. The grass was mid-calf, the rocks were full of weeds, and the bushes that line the front of our house were totally brown as though dead. (I’m happy to say that upon closer inspection, there are green shoots, providing us with a ray of hope.) And that was just the front yard. The back yard was almost as bad, with the worst section being the play area which was totally overcome with weeds and grass.

The lawn, however, was lush and green, thanks to the rain.

We barely got the car unloaded when I heard Bill starting up the lawn mower. There was nothing I could do to stop him. And mowing a lawn with grass that long is no easy matter. But he finished up in time to watch the gates open in the Kentucky Derby, and the arrival of our first grandkids.

Cole gave Nana some much-appreciated snuggles.

Cole gave Nana some much-appreciated snuggles.

Court, Kaiya, Mylee, and Cole came to see us and to have dinner with us. I wasn’t surprised to see the girls were very happy to see us. I was overjoyed, however, to see that Cole (who turns 1 this very day; happy birthday Cole!) was happy as well. Since he was only seven months old when we left, I wasn’t sure he’d even know my face. I think their January visit and FaceTime calls helped. He not only came to me with a smile, but he laid his head on my shoulder, making me the happiest nana alive.

After dinner, Court went home because Kaiya was feeling poorly. So we headed over to see our second set of grandkids.

Adelaide, Alastair, Dagny, and Maggie Faith must have seen us pull up in the yellow bug, because they were out of the house running for us before the car’s

Looking at our photos of Disneyland and wondering why they hadn't been invited.

Looking at our photos of Disneyland and wondering why they hadn’t been invited.

engine was even turned off. Hugs aplenty, I assure you, and much catching up. Addie is busy with volleyball and being 12, Alastair is smack dab in the middle of baseball season, Dagny and Maggie are getting ready for a dance recital (which is called a “sharing.” Seriously?).

Bill spent yesterday working some more in the yard, but this time he had help from Alastair. Saturday evening he and Alastair worked out a business arrangement. Five bucks an hour for weeding. Money well spent.

This week will be spent unpacking, straightening up the house (which actually needs very little straightening up), and refilling the pantry (which on the other hand needs a LOT of work). I already have several commitments for babysitting which makes me a very happy grandmother.

Bill asked me what I was going to blog about today. I said I was going to write about coming back home. He said, “Aren’t we lucky that we aren’t coming back home, but are coming to spend time in our other home.

We are blessed. And I’m mighty happy to see most of my grandkids. Now if I could just get my hands on those two Vermonters!

Saturday Smile: ILove the IPad

Any sufficiently advanced technology is equivalent to magic. – Arthur C. Clarke (Author)

Jen has been here visiting this past week and, not surprisingly, has spent a lot of time with her grandkids. On Thursday night, Maggie had to work and so Jen decided to spend the night at our/her house. Her grandkids stayed with their father. As she headed towards the door, 4-year-old Austin began to cry. He was inconsolable.

“She’ll be back tomorrow, Buddy,” his father told him. Between sobs, Austin replied, “But sheeeeee’s t-t-t-taking her Ipad.”

And there you have it, Folks. What being a grandparent has been reduced to…..

Austin ipad_resized

The number of games on their Ipads.

Have a great weekend.

Grandkid Joy

For the second year in a row, I made a mid-winter trip back to Denver to visit my kids and grandkids and help waylay homesickness. Last year I came by myself. This year Bill joined me.

We had a busy four or five days and loved every minute of it. We saw all of our Denver grandchildren except for Taylor, and spent some time with our Denver kids. We assisted in carpooling and babysitting and were able to feed and be fed by our family. Though we will miss Addie’s performance this upcoming weekend  in Shrek: The Musical, both Bill and I were able to sit in on a rehearsal. Almost as good. I know you will be shocked to hear me say that she is a natural talent.

We stared down the snow, which bookended our trip (it snowed the day we arrived and it snowed as we departed). We lamented a plethora of illnesses being faced by family members, including strep throat and a number of runny noses, sore throats, and earaches. If Bill and I are able to dodge getting sick, it will be just short of a miracle.

But it will have been worth it.

Here is a sampling of our activities…..

magnolia nebulizer

Magnolia spent a bit of time each day with her nebulizer as a result of a really bad cold. Poor girl. She was beginning to get her appetite back by time we left.

zierks playing

Kaiya, Mylee, and Cole are building castles with the blocks. Well, to be honest, Cole spent more time knocking down the castles his sisters built. They were thrilled.

kaiya crescent rolls

Kaiya helped me roll crescents Sunday night when I fed family.

And while we were enjoying our time in Denver, our daughter Heather and her family were visiting her grandmother (Bill’s mom) in Chicago with Joseph and Micah….

 

Joseph and Micah spent time this past week with their great grandmother. What a blessing!

Joseph and Micah spent time this past week with their great grandmother. What a blessing!

Now it’s back to the real world in the desert, and the beginning of Spring Training for the Cactus League. Batter up!

Saturday Smile: Colonel Mustard in the Library With a Hammer

We came back to Denver for a long weekend because we have missed our family. It has been hovering around 75 degrees with clear skies in Arizona. As Bill told someone yesterday, “We wanted to get away from the nice weather for a few days.”

Here’s what our back yard looks like in Denver…..

backyard snow

But despite the frigid temperatures, it has been awesome to see the family. The grandkids (at least some of them) gathered as soon as we got there…..

grands gathered

I spent part of yesterday watching 4-year-old Mylee and 9-month-old Cole while Mommy and Daddy went to an appointment. Cole slept, but Mylee began bringing out games. Her favorite was Clue Junior. From what I could tell, she has no idea how to play the game, so her version was largely about setting up the board and assigning positions. It then involved a roll of the die which led to hopping madly around the board in no particular order.

mylee clue

I also got to see 11-year-old Addie practice for her upcoming school play Shrek.

And we’ve only been here a couple of days.

Have a great weekend.