Friday Book Whimsy: Bent Road

imgresETHEREAL READER ALERT: IT IS TIME TO START READING OUR NEXT NOVEL — A WEEK IN WINTER BY MAEVE BINCHY. DISCUSSION WILL BEGIN FRIDAY, JUNE 6. ANYONE WHO IS INTERESTED CAN JOIN US BY READING THIS BOOK AND PARTICIPATING IN OUR DISCUSSION VIA COMMENTS. THANKS.

Bent Road

Again, here I am reading and reviewing a novel that takes place in the 1960s. I’m not sure what is drawing me to this time period, but it can’t be accidental that this is the third book that I’ve read in the past four weeks that takes place in the 60s.

Bent Road, a debut novel by Lori Roy, is the haunting story of a family with a dark secret that keeps them from moving forward into joy. Arthur Scott moves his family – wife Celia, teenaged daughter Elaine, almost-teen son Daniel, and young daughter Evie – from their home in Detroit back to his childhood home in Kansas when the racial problems in Detroit begin to escalate in the 60s.

Arthur moved to Detroit shortly after his sister Eve died mysteriously. Eve, who had been a small young woman with blonde hair, had been ready to marry Ray. After she died, Ray married Arthur and Eve’s sister Ruth.

Very little has appears to have changed back at the ranch in the 20 years or so that he has been gone, except that it is clear that Ray is an alcoholic who physically abuses Ruth. Couple that with the disappearance of a young girl who is physically built like Eve and also has very blonde hair, and you have for a creepy story. Especially since Arthur’s youngest daughter looks much like Eve as well.

The novel is dark, but the pacing kept me engaged. I simply wanted to see what happened next. Occasional glimpses of the love the family had for one another prevented this from becoming nothing but a morose and gothic tale.

The story isn’t a typical murder mystery, though the ending caught me completely by surprise. Instead, it’s a story of a family coming to grips with constant change and learning the danger of keeping secrets. Throughout the novel, which takes place over a matter of a few months, we see Daniel grow up and Arthur and Celia learn how to love one another again. We see Ruth become strong and even watch little Evie come into her own.

I’m not entirely sure why the novel had to take place in the 1960s. The only thing I can think of is that there had to be a believable setting in which such physical abuse could take place under everyone’s watching eye without anyone doing anything about it. I’m not saying that doesn’t happen in our contemporary society, but I think it was far more common back in the days before the Women’s Movement.  Plus, they had to have a reason for Arthur and Celia to be willing to uproot themselves and return to this place of which Arthur had no pleasant memories, and civil unrest is as good a reason as any.

There are many despicable characters in this novel, not the least of whom is the evil Father Flannigan. (Seriously, couldn’t they have come up with another priest name? I couldn’t stop picturing him as Spencer Tracy.) Still, much as I hate to admit it, I think back in the 60s, priests were more inclined to think a woman’s place is with her husband, no matter the circumstances. Father Flannigan was particularly unpleasant, however.

And then there was the wicked Uncle Ray. Enough said about him.

Bent Road is pretty dark all the way through, no question about it. The ending, however, is hopeful and entirely perfect, I think.

Great book for a book club discussion and a book I highly recommend if you are in the mood for a serious read.

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View From the Cab: A Look at Life from 18 Wheels

36524_10200242706613215_2031204608_nI have a friend — roughly my age — who started career number 3 a couple of years ago. (Or at least career number 3 since I have known him.) When we first met, he was in sales. After a number of years, he scratched an itch to own his own business. He owned and operated a print shop in Omaha for a long time. He finally got tired of the hassles involved in owning a business, and he hung in for a long time as it became more and more difficult to find ways to make money as a printer in an age of social media and other high-tech obstacles. 

Professional truck driving was something in which he had had a niggling interest for some time. Why not, he thought. So he went to school and learned to drive an 18-wheeler. Driving a “big rig” across mostly the central and northern Midwest, he delivers goods from one place to another. And he looks at life from high up in his cab. He posts his observations regularly on Facebook, and they always — every single time — make me smile. He has a way of looking at the world that I think is remarkable. He notices things that I take for granted.

With his permission, I am going to occasionally share his observations with you, as a guest blogger.

I have seen some really interesting things in the past couple of weeks in my trips through central Nebraska and Kansas. We had a bad snow that closed about a 20 mile stretch of I-80 but I was lucky to have missed it. Instead, I was off duty for a day and then off down to Liberal, KS on the Oklahoma border once the snow ended and melted off. The 80 degree temps in KS were great. While in Kansas I saw an incredible sign as I approached a small town. It said, “Russell, Kansas – hometown of U.S. Senators Bob Dole and Arlen Specter”. WOW! These 2 heavyweight senators from the same small town! That’s incredible!

On the same trip I saw a cloud formation I have never seen before and was unable to find a picture of in hundreds of internet cloud pictures. I was driving west on I-70, the day was warm and sunny – partly cloudy. The unusual thing about the clouds was that they were low cumulus type in wide parallel, evenly spaced blue & white stripes that stretched from horizon to horizon in all directions. It was as if I were driving under a huge Greek national flag. I wish I had been able to take a picture as I have never ever seen clouds arranged like that.

Then, there was the rainbow just north of I-80 near Cozad, NE. This is corn country, flat and wide open. The corn fields this time of year are mostly cut stubble left from last fall’s harvest. It was about 5pm and I was driving east approaching the back side of a rain front that had just passed through. With the sun at my back, a rainbow was created that was long and low that appeared to me to grow out of the highway ahead of me and stretch to the north horizon to my left. As I got closer to the rain front the rainbow increased in color intensity and grew into a full double rainbow, still seemingly to originate directly ahead of me. Getting closer to it and as wide open as the terrain was, I realized I might be able to see the end of the rainbow. Pretty soon it was evident that the rainbow generated not out of the highway ahead but just off it to my left in the cut stubble cornfield about 200 yards from the road. WOW! I did see the end of the rainbow as I passed it into the rain front! At the same time I saw 4 large men wearing black jumpsuits load an object resembling a large black pot into a black van lettered “United States of America Internal Revenue Service”. Even a pot of gold isn’t safe from those guys!

There was the Delorean car customized to look just like the “Back to the Future” time travel car going west on I-80. Cool. And the suicidal squirrel that ran out into the road, stood up on its hind legs, and stared wide-eyed as my big, red truck sped toward him. He did what he set out to do. Who knows why?

Boy, those parallel clouds were awesome! Keep your eyes open and drive safe. — Bob B.

 

Milestones

SM3_1I wrote my first Nana’s Whimsies post on August 14, 2013. Today I am posting my 200th entry. And I still don’t really understand the whole notion of blogging.

I’m always a bit behind the curve when it comes to technology. There’s a somewhat funny commercial I’ve seen recently where a dad, mom, and child are going across the street to visit the neighbors. The father cautions the child to be kind to the neighbors because they are still in the dark ages, i.e. no cell phones. It concludes by the dad saying, “See those smoke signals? That’s email.”

That’s just about the extent of it folks. About the time I finally understand something, it’s become antiquated technology. Guess it’s about time I shut down my My Space account.

I began Nana’s Whimsies because I missed writing. I have degrees in journalism and applied communication, and I wrote extensively as part of my job.  I love to write. Call me crazy. In fact, I never dread sitting down and writing my blog post for the next day. Now coming up with topics about which to write – that’s a different story. My life simply isn’t that interesting.

My sister Jen, who is the one most responsible for getting me off my frufra and blogging again, says my life is as interesting as the next guy’s. It’s all about the writing. I don’t know if that’s true or not. Still, Seinfeld – a show about nothing – was one of the most successful on television. Don’t get me wrong; I am not comparing my blog to any Seinfeld episode ever. I don’t have a Kramer in my life. Bill comes close, but he’s not quite there.

Though there is this…..

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I suspect the bulk of my readers are people I know. Every once in a while I’ll get a comment from someone I didn’t know was reading my blog and it makes me very happy. I have a number of folks following my blog with whom I am unfamiliar. That’s kind of cool too.

I would like to build my readership. That’s why I have started posting it on Facebook every day, and it has resulted in more hits. Occasionally one of my Facebook friends will share the link, and that gets me even more hits.

Readership is important if I ever want to become rich and famous. I’m just kidding about being rich and famous, but it would be nice to earn a few dollars from my efforts. Still, every blogger with whom I’ve spoken has said if you get into blogging for the money, you are wasting your time. You should blog to communicate with others through your pictures and your words. But mostly you should blog because you love it.

I promise that is the biggest reason I blog. When my nephew Christopher tells me he reads my blog every single day, that makes me extremely happy. When I get a comment from a cousin I almost never see, I am overjoyed.

So, much to my surprise, today I posted NUMBER 200! It’s a milestone of sorts. I wasn’t sure I was going to be able to be disciplined enough to write every day, but I have. I’m proud of myself.

Thanks for reading Nana’s Whimsies, and I appreciate all feedback and suggestions.

Make Yourself Homely

I’ve mentioned two or three thousand times that my paternal grandparents came to the United States from Switzerland in 1924. I never asked them directly why they did so, but I imagine the economy had been impacted by World War I, and perhaps they even saw the handwriting on the wall regarding another imminent war. Ask your parents and grandparents question now, Kids. It will soon be too late.

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This is the actual ship upon which my grandparents sailed from Bremen to NYC in 1924.

As you know if you paid attention during World Geography, Switzerland is a small country bordered by Germany, Austria, Italy, and France. The language spoken by the Swiss people depends upon the nearest border country. In other words, some people speak French and some speak Italian. But the majority of folks speak German, or at least a form of German. My understanding is that the formal written language is German, but I can tell you from personal experience that the spoken language is a Swiss dialect form of German. I studied some German, but never was able to understand a word my grandparents spoke when they weren’t speaking English.

When my grandparents settled in Columbus, my grandfather – who now had his own business – immediately took lessons to learn to speak English. I don’t think he was required to do so; he just presumed that to successfully run the bakery, it would help to know the English language. He always spoke perfect English.

My grandmother, on the other hand, didn’t study to learn English. Now don’t get me wrong. She

Grammie knittinglearned English. She just didn’t take formal lessons. She learned it by talking to people and working the front end of the bakery.

Imagine that. Imagine suddenly living in a place where you didn’t speak a word of the language. Bill and I struggled with language enough during our big adventure, and that was only for three months, and as tourists, we could get away with a lot. For Grammie and Grandpa, English was going to be the language they spoke for the rest of their life. I’ve always been amazed at how well they adjusted.

And especially my grandmother – learning the language without a single lesson. Now don’t get me wrong. She didn’t speak perfect English. But she spoke her version of English and it was certainly understandable by everyone. In fact, it was absolutely perfect to our ears.

If you have ever studied a foreign language, you probably know that there are certain words that you just don’t translate well. It might take five or six words to explain what a word means, and then it still doesn’t quite fit the bill.

Grammie had a lot of words like that. Dad picked them up, and so did Mom. In fact, we all learned what really was, for all intents and purposes, a secret language. Our spouses had to learn them, and our children have listened to them since birth.

Since most of them are either Swiss/German words, or a variation of such, I am not certain how they would be spelled. Many likely would require an umlaut, which is a symbol placed over a vowel indicating a slight variation in the sound. My keyboard doesn’t include the umlaut, and most would have trouble pronouncing it anyhow. You just have to work with me here.

I will give the word, spelling it the best I can, give as much of a definition as I can, and then use it in a sentence.

So:

Fuscht — mess around with, as in “Will you quit fuschting with your hair.”

Blurt — stupid, silly, as in “The TV show Nashville is becoming very blurt.”

Honyock (pronounced hun-yock) — little stinker, as in “Austin Joseph Jensen is a honyock.”

Bundy — a group of people who are a handful (important distinction). So, this word requires a bit of explanation. Here’s what I mean: The congregation at my church would not be called a bundy. However, there is a family that comes to church every Sunday. They take up the whole pew. The family consists of a couple of Grandmas and Grandpas, some grown children and their spouses, and some grandchildren. The grandchildren are constantly crawling back and forth on the pew, going from one grandma to another. During the handshake of peace, everyone has to hug everyone else, and it causes quite a disruption. This family is a bundy.

Frufra — backside, as in “She fell down and landed on her frufra.”

Rappsli — grating, as in “I am going to rappsli some Swiss cheese.”

Schmutzig – this, of course, is an actual German word, meaning dirty, as in “How could you have gotten your clothes so schmutzig in such a short time?

Klotch – hit, as in, “I just got klotched in the head.” In fact, I think klotching was always in the head. I don’t think one got klotched in the stomach, for example.

Knible – rolling pin, and mostly the ones without the handles.

Schweinhunt – this is another actual German word, literally translated as pig-dog. In German, it is highly offensive. In our case, it was almost an affectionate rebuke that meant you were being naughty. My brother said he was often called a schweinhunt.

Kaput – another German word meaning end. For us, it meant a final end, and generally of a piece of machinery, a car, or something that was totally and finally broken.

Boobly – this was Grammie’s word for the little topknot made out of yarn that she put on every single hat she ever knitted or crocheted for us. People frequently wear hats with booblies. For example, the NFL football players this past year all wore stocking caps with booblies. However, something tells me Peyton Manning didn’t refer to his topknot as a bloobly. It was.

Schnabel – Well, I’m not going to translate this one for you. Use your imagination.

While we have all picked up the words as a natural part of our vocabulary, it is interesting to note that it doesn’t seem like our children have. Perhaps we don’t use the words as often as our parents and grandparents did. Or maybe our kids just prefer to use words that are actually in the Webster Dictionary. Still, it makes me kind of sad to see these words pass into obscurity.

The title of my post, by the way, comes from something my grandmother used to say when someone would come to visit her at her home. I’m not sure she ever knew her error, and no one seemed to have their feelings hurt.

Do you have any family words that you use?

In yesterday’s post, I mentioned a delicious French toast casserole that I made for Easter brunch, and someone asked for the recipe. I am happy to provide it, and highly recommend you try it when you have calories to spare.

french toast casseroleBaked French Toast, courtesy Ree Drummond, The Prairie Woman, and Food Network

Ingredients

Butter, for greasing

1 loaf crusty sourdough or French bread

8 whole eggs

2 c. whole milk

½ heavy cream

½ c. white sugar

½ c. brown sugar

2 T. vanilla extract

Topping

½ c. flour

½ c. firmly packed brown sugar

1 t. cinnamon

¼ t. salt

Freshly grated nutmeg (optional)

1 stick cold butter, cut into pieces

Process

For the French toast: Tear the bread into chunks, or cut into cubes, and evenly distribute in the pan. Crack the eggs in a big bowl. Whisk together the eggs, milk, cream, white sugar, brown sugar and vanilla. Pour evenly over the bread. Cover the pan tightly and store in the fridge until needed (overnight preferably). Or you can make it and bake it right away.

For the topping: Mix the flour, brown sugar, cinnamon, salt and some nutmeg in a separate bowl. Stir together using a fork. Add the butter and with a pastry cutter, mix it all together until the mixture resembles fine pebbles. Store in the fridge.

When you’re ready to bake the casserole, preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Remove the casserole from the fridge and sprinkle the topping over the top. Bake for 45 min. for a softer, more bread pudding texture or for 1 hour-plus for a firmer, crispier texture.

Serve with butter, syrup and berries.

Nana’s Notes: This casserole is decadent. It is the best baked French toast I have eaten. I served it with real maple syrup. We reheated leftovers yesterday, and I think it might even be better the second day.

 

The Road to Hell

easter-eggWell, sinners though we are, Jesus again rose from the dead on Easter Sunday to save our pitiful selves. My gratitude knows no bounds.

Still, I feel compelled to say that it is a good thing that Jesus didn’t have me managing his schedule those 2,000+ years ago, for if it had been so, we might all still be flailing around in the throes of sin.

Our Mesa church has three Sunday Masses: a 7 o’clock, a 9 o’clock, and an 11 o’clock. Bill and I always go to 9 o’clock Mass. Since we moved here, on one occasion we went to the Saturday evening Mass at 4 o’clock, but other than that, it has always been the 9 o’clock Mass on Sunday morning.

That is the Mass I intended to go to yesterday as well. But since we were hosting an Easter extravaganza, suddenly Saturday morning it occurred to me that we perhaps should go to the 7 o’clock Mass so that I could be home early and begin preparing the meal. Bill agreed.

We set our alarm for 5:30, giving us enough time to have a cup of coffee before we began dressing for church. I didn’t think that the 7 o’clock Mass would be that busy, as WHO IN THE WORLD GETS UP THAT EARLY FOR CHURCH? If we left our house at 6:30, we would be there in plenty of time I said with confidence.

We arrived at church at 6:40, and saw that the parking lot was full. Hmmm. Of course, lots of people go to Mass on Easter that don’t otherwise go, so perhaps that’s the reason for all of these cars 20 minutes before Mass, I thought. Still, there were no people milling around their cars or walking towards the church. That troubled me.

We walked up to the church expecting to be greeted by the ushers, but the doors were firmly closed with no ushers in sight. We peeked in, and saw that the entire congregation was kneeling and Mass was clearly in session. At 6:40.

I don’t get it, I said to Bill. Even if Mass started at 6:30 (which, why would it?), it should just barely be started. It looks like they are over halfway through Mass.

We snuck in the back door to find that Mass was, indeed, half over. In fact, we arrived just in time for the Consecration of the host. Whaaaaat?

I was in a bit of a quandary, because at this point there was really no other Mass option. I had told company they could come any time after 9:30, so I needed to be there, and more importantly, have food prepared.

We snuck in and quietly celebrated the last half of the Mass. The saddest thing is that Bill didn’t get to hear what is clearly his very favorite hymn – Jesus Christ is Risen Today A-A-A-A-A-le-e-lu-u-ya! He had been humming it for two days in preparation.

As we drove home, I felt wholly dissatisfied with my worship experience, and said so. Bill reminded me that we had certainly had the best of intentions.

There was a moment of silence.

“Of course, my mom always said the road to hell is paved with good intentions,” he concluded.

So there you have it.french toast casserole

I got home in plenty of time to bake my wonderful French Toast Casserole that was sinfully good, my egg casserole that I thought was sinfully bad but everyone told me was good, and – most important – got my ham in the oven.

People came and went all day long, just as I had anticipated, as my nieces and nephews made their way to and from visits with the other side of the family. We nibbled all day long, watched the kids hide, seek, re-hide and re-seek the plastic Easter eggs I had bought at the dollar store. How much? One dollah! Got my money’s worth out of those babies.

All in all, though I could end up in hell, I don’t think it will because I miscalculated the time of Mass. By the way, when we got home, we deviled eggschecked online only to learn that on Easter Sunday, the 7 o’clock Mass becomes a 6 o’clock sunrise Mass. Who knew?

Nevertheless, despite my not being there to hear the Gospel read, Peter and the “disciple Jesus loved” did indeed run to the tomb only to find it empty.  He had risen.

Saturday Smile: Chillin’

With the hit-and-miss weather that Colorado has been experiencing this spring, it is no surprise that the grandkids take advantage of one of the “hit” days when the weather is warm.

This photo of Kaiya and Mylee sitting in front of their house enjoying a popsicle made me laugh.Enjoy the weather while you have it!

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Have a good weekend, and enjoy Easter.

He is not here, but is risen  Luke 24: 6

Ethereal Reader Book Club: Monuments Men

You will recall that Nana’s Whimsies hosts an online book club called Ethereal Reader. Following is a review of the book the group read. Anyone is welcome to participate in our discussion via comments. The original book review, posted below, was written by Jennifer Sanchez.

searchI enjoyed The Monuments Men: Allied Heroes, Nazi Thieves, and the Greatest Treasure Hunt in History by Robert M. Edsel very much. Typically when we review and discuss a book, we talk about how we felt about the author’s writing style. But while I read this book – and upon completion – I found I really didn’t have much of a thought about the author’s method of storytelling. Maybe because the genre was nonfiction.

I had never read about this aspect of WWII previously. Beckie and I saw the movie when I was approximately 130 pages into the book. I loved the movie and I think it helped me read the book more quickly than I would have without seeing it.

I was hooked on the story from the beginning . I enjoyed learning about the men that entered the war for this reason. And then of course as the story unraveled it became more and more compelling. I have read many, many novels that take place during WII. It is one of my favorite periods for a book to take place. This book made me feel emotions and have thoughts about this point in history that other stories have not brought forth.

One strong emotion was a feeling of patriotism. The evil, greed and mania that U.S. involvement helped put an end to makes me as proud of my country as I’ve ever felt. I particularly enjoyed learning about the details and territory covered by the Third and Seventh Armies and the pride they felt in the job they were doing. It brought to mind tidbits my mom had told me about one of her brothers who served in Africa. While I am certainly familiar with Generals Patton and Eisenhower, I loved hearing about their leadership, particularly within the story of this novel. Even the tasks that the Core of Engineers assisted in, following the end of the war, and their assistance to the Monument Men’s goals were amazing.

Other thoughts brought forth during this novel:

I have great respect for the men and women (example Rose) that are as passionate about their job and art as they were.

George Stout was remarkable, as the men that worked with him never failed to comment.

This novel brought forth information I had never contemplated. A paragraph on page 234 stands out regarding the amount of things that were stolen by the Nazis.

“Religious relics, altars, Torah scrolls, church bells, stained-glass windows, jewelry, archives, tapestries, …. Even trolley cars from the city of Amsterdam. “

We all are aware of the loss of lives during this war, but the amount of theft was astounding. Harry Ettlinger said, “ My knowledge of the Holocaust started really with the realization that it was not only the taking of lives but the taking of all of their belongings.”

And as the war was ending the Nazi plan to destroy bridges, factories — all things that the surviving German people would have had left from which to rebuild. Walker Hancock was quoted as saying, “The Germans were wonderfully disciplined and correct while they had the upper hand – and went berserk when it was obvious their visit was at an end.”

Walker Hancock wrote of the spring of 1945 when the war was coming to an end. The allies were going into the concentration camps and seeing things first hand. In Germany they would encounter German soldiers missing arms or legs, the civilians looking for direction or assistance. I love his words, “All such an exaggerated picture of the man-made way of life in a God-made world. If it all doesn’t prove the necessity of Heaven, I don’t know what it means.” And when the Jewish chaplain went into Buchenwald to conduct a service for the survivors and he stated they were anguished over the lack of a Torah. Hancock had one to give him and he stated, “The people were weeping, reaching for it, kissing it, overcome with joy at the sight of the symbol of their faith.” I found these such strong testaments to faith.

My last quote from the book: Lincoln Kirstein wrote to his wife at the end of the war when he was so very weary of it all, “I am not interested in lousy old Germany’s lousy old future.”

What are your thoughts? Were you aware of this effort to recover the stolen artwork during the war? Did you learn information you had not known previously?

 

Wascally Wabbit

croppedI had one of those bolt-up-in-bed moments a week or so ago when something popped into my head that I hadn’t thought about in 45 years.

Every Easter, Gloor’s Bakery sold bunny cakes.

I texted my brother.

“Remember Dad’s bunny cakes?” I asked him.

“Yes,” he responded. “But in my mind they are mom’s bunny cakes. I remember doing the jelly beans and colored toothpick faces under her guidance.”

Hmmmm.

I texted Jen.

“Do you remember that we sold bunny cakes at the bakery at Easter?” I asked.

“Yes,” she replied. “Mom was very enthusiastic about her bunny cakes at Easter time.”

Really?

The reason that surprises me is that Mom generally didn’t get particularly enthusiastic about bakery holiday rigamarole. And she heartily disliked cake decorating. And yet she apparently liked making these bunny cakes. Who would have guessed?

They were very cute, and we sold a whole lot of bunny cakes every Easter as I recall. They were decorated and stored in the freezer. I remember opening the freezer door and having 15 or 20 pairs of jelly bean eyes staring back at me.

I asked Bill if he would be interested in trying to recreate the bunny cake. He agreed and that’s how we spent yesterday morning.

Here’s a tutorial. Don’t expect miracles. I am not Ree Drummond.

I baked a two layer white cake. I chose to use a cake mix since I wasn’t sure how it would turn out. I baked it the night before and put the two layers in the freezer so they would be easier to work with….

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I cut one of the cake layers in half, and stood each half upright for the bunny’s back….

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I cut ends from the second layer, then cut them in half to use for the bunny’s head and tail….

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Bill did a lot of sculpting. I don’t remember my mom doing any sculpting…..

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I iced the cake and covered it in sweetened coconut. At this point it looks like a 1956 Chevy that has been left out in a snow storm. No rabbit resemblance….

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Aha! Add a pair of cardboard ears and the whole world changes…..

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A couple of toothpicks and some jelly bean eyes and nose, and you have yourself a reasonable looking rabbit. Bill constructed the white picket fence. He simply can’t stop himself…

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The final result….

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Nana’s Notes: I am very satisfied with my end product, but I am quite certain Mom did no sculpting, so I’m not sure how she made the head and tail. Bec and/or Dave will know, and will tell me. I also think my bunny ended up bigger than the ones we sold at the bakery. That likely has something to do with my head and tail.

 

 

Bunny Up

I think Easter has gotten to be kind of a complicated holiday. Perhaps it’s because it really has become so secularized that we’ve lost our focus on what’s actually important about this holy day. But that’s perhaps a post for another time.

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This photo is of no one I know, but the Easter bunny is the scariest thing I’ve ever seen. Just why do we do this to our children?

Easter was a pretty big deal for our family when we were growing up. This was in large part because we attended Catholic school where we weren’t allowed to forget the meaning of Easter. But we were children, after all. So there’s no denying that one of the most awesome things about Easter was our new finery.

In the 50s and early 60s, our Easter finery included a sport coat and tie for my brother (along with a fresh crew cut) and a fancy new dress for the three girls. And of course, the Easter bonnet. It was a must. For one thing, back in those days we were required to cover our heads when we entered the church. Most of the time we did this by wearing a chapel veil, which was a small round lace cloth that we pinned to the top of our heads. But on Easter, we wore a bonnet.

As a small child, Mom kept our hair short. A pixie cut, and my bangs were always crooked. As an aside, the woman who cut our hair – Fay – must have hated children, or at least cutting children’s hair. She would use a razor and hat with sashliterally yank, yank, yank at the hair. I hated getting my hair cut ALMOST as much as I hated going to our also-children-hating dentist. In fact, the first time my current hair stylist brought out a razor to cut my hair, I began screaming uncontrollably. (Not really, but I did feel compelled to tell her about my childhood experience.) But I digress.

I don’t know how my sisters felt about their short hair, but I yearned to have long hair. So when it came time to buy my Easter hat, a requirement – non-negotiable – was that it have a long grosgrain ribbon going down my back. When wearing the hat, I would swish my head back and forth so that the ribbon would sometimes flip over my shoulder, you know, like a pony tail. Pitiful, no?

glovesGloves and patent-leather shoes with white anklet socks were also a requirement with our finery. I loved wearing my white gloves. In fact, I wish women still wore gloves when they dressed up. There is nothing more elegant. One year I even had white gloves with pink flowers embroidered on them. Sigh.

When we walked into St. Bonaventure Catholic Church, it was filled with men, women, and children dressed to the hilt in similar Easter finery. We would look around to see if our friends had prettier hats and dresses than we. We would make sure we walked up the aisle in such a way that our new patent leather shoes click-click-clicked on the hard floor.

Nowadays kids mostly get the finery and forgo the church service. That makes me sad.

What has gotten complicated nowadays – at least in my opinion – is that it is another excuse to give children gifts and take children to organized activities. When I was young, we got an Easter basket and that was it. We would color the hard-boiled eggs the night before and place them in our basketrin-easter-baskets. When we awoke on Easter morning, the Easter bunny had come, filled our basket with candy, and hidden the basket – in its entirety – somewhere in the house. I’m pretty sure our Easter bunny didn’t have the patience to hide each individual egg. Our bunny was a little cranky.

We did have an Easter egg hunt, however, at Pawnee Park. For whatever reason, Grammie loved Easter. And she loved hiding the little plastic Easter eggs in the trees and bushes around this pretty park. There were no organized eggs hunts. We saw many other families doing the exact same thing. Such fun.

Then we would make our way home to another feast prepared by my mother that always included a ham and creamed potatoes.

A feast fit for a king. And fit to celebrate the Risen King.

Creamed Potatoes

Ingredients

6-7 russet potatoes, peeled and cubed

3 T. butter

1/4 c. all-purpose flour

1 t. salt

1/2 t. pepper

2 c. milk

Chives and/or parsley

Process

Place cubed potatoes in a large saucepan and cover with cold water. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat; cover and cook until tender, approximately 15-20 min. In a separate pan, melt butter. Add flour, salt and pepper, and whisk until smooth. Gradually add milk, whisking as you pour. Bring back to a boil; cook until thickened, about 2 minutes.

Drain the potatoes and place them in a serving bowl. Pour the cream sauce over the potatoes and gently stir to coat. Sprinkle with herbs if desired.

 

Sharing Space

jen austinBill and I began thinking of buying a house in the Phoenix area as far back as 2007. But it was my sister Jen who convinced us that the time to act was upon us in 2010. She called me up one day and said, “We are crazy if we don’t take advantage of the housing market in Phoenix and buy something. Let’s go in together.”

Hmmmm. The idea had some merit. In fact, after talking about it some more, we all decided it was a heck of a good idea. And so here we are.

While Bill and I are retired and therefore are able to spend the winter here, Jen has one of those inconvenient things called a job and, while she visits as often as she can, mostly she makes her share of the house payment and wishes she were here. It won’t always be this way.

I will admit that in the back of my mind, I have wondered how it would work if we all lived here. We tease Bill about his sister wives, but we don’t want to actually face that scenario! The answer to the question, of course, is that we don’t really know. But one thing I have witnessed is that when we have been together in this house, we get along just fine. The house, though small, is divided. If you go down one hallway, you are in the McLain wing. If you go down the other hallway, you are in the Sanchez wing. Doesn’t that sound like Downton Abbey? Never mind that the house is a mere 1,300 square feet or so. And there is no downstairs for the ladies’ maids and/or Bill’s valet. Rats. I will simply have to continue to dress myself.

Jen and I are no strangers to sharing space. That is true of all of the Gloor siblings. There are four of us, and the boy didn’t come until the end. We grew up in a house that probably wasn’t as large as our Arizona house – maybe 1,100 square feet or so. We had three bedrooms, and one bathroom. Yes, it’s true. We had a solitary bathroom in which we all had to get ready each day. And you know what? I never remember there being a problem. But it’s probably why you don’t see any of us spending a lot of time in a bathroom primping even today.

new house kitchen south west

This is the kitchen area. The little table which seated six was in that small area by the window.

A few years ago, Jen was visiting Columbus with a couple of her friends. They pulled up in front of our old house to see how it looked, and the current homeowner noticed she had a stalker. Since it was Columbus, instead of calling the police, she came out and asked if she could help them. Jen explained that she had grown up in that house and was just looking. The woman invited Jennie into the house.

Well, it was a blast from the past, that’s for sure. Jen’s take: “How in the world did the six of us ever live in such a small house? And how did Mom make

Here is the living room in which every important photo was taken.

Here is the living room in which every important photo was taken.

dinner in that tiny little kitchen? And most of all, how come I remember it being so much bigger?”

For many of my formative years, there was a double bed (not a queen-sized), and a single bed in one bedroom, in which three of us slept. The second bedroom had one bed and the inhabitant of that room changed. For a bit it was my baby brother’s nursery. When he was old enough to get out of his crib, I recall that he slept in the same room with Jen and I for a short time while Bec enjoyed her own bedroom as a teenager. I don’t think that lasted long. Once Bec left for college, Dave got his own bedroom.

So do you see the common denominator? Jen and I shared a bedroom for much of our lives, and for the bulk of the time we shared one bed. I, in fact, shared a bedroom with someone until I finally had my own apartment in Leadville when I was 22. Never spent a night without someone in a bed next to mine. I had a roommate in the dorm and again in the sorority house. Funny. I never gave it a second thought.

While all of our grandkids live in homes considerably larger than the one in which I grew up, it’s strange in this day and age that each of the three households with kids involves bedroom sharing. But the reality is if you ask the kids if they mind sharing a bedroom, they will all enthusiastically proclaim they don’t mind a bit. In fact, it makes them happy. That might change when they’re teenagers but for the time being, they are content with the arrangements.

Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m not considering sharing a bedroom again with Jen. I’m perfectly content with my current roommate. We’re used to hearing each other snore. It’s just fun to reminisce about sharing space.

And, of course, since Easter is upon us, I’m also thinking about sharing food. Generally, whether we eat breakfast, brunch or an afternoon dinner, there is ham involved. It’s springtime after all. Ham is not my favorite food, but I enjoy it once or so a year at Easter. I buy a spiral-cut ham at Costco or the grocery store and make my own glaze.

Orange Glazed Ham

Ingredients

1/2 c. frozen orange juice concentrate, thawed

1/4 c. bourbon

3 T. Dijon mustard

6 lb. ham

whole cloves

Process

Preheat oven to 350. In medium bowl, combine orange juice concentrate, brown sugar, bourbon and mustard. Mix well and set aside. Push cloves into the ham and then pour orange juice mixture over the meat. Cover with aluminum foil, tenting it in the center so it doesn’t touch the ham. Bake at 350 for two hours, basting with the pan juices every 30 minutes. Let stand, covered, 10 minutes before serving.

Nana’s Notes: The cloves aren’t mandatory of course. I like to use them because I think they pretty it up and because my mother used them. If I’m serving the ham at a brunch, I put it out with small rolls and condiments. Yum.